Are the lies of “worthlessness” nagging your soul?
10/22/2025

Are the lies of “worthlessness” nagging your soul?

Worthlessness is a nagging old voice the enemy of your soul has taunted you with for many years. However, this enemy uses “worthless” to interpret events from your life. I remember being in my dorm room in Bible college, having gotten radically saved just a few weeks prior to admission. That “I’m not worthy” voice began to talk to me. The Lord spoke to me loud and clear and asked me one simple question that changed my life. “Who are you going to believe, them or Me?”

D Douglas Weiss
A Bible Story of Restoration From Addiction
10/15/2025

A Bible Story of Restoration From Addiction

Men and women have been medicating their pain and bad choices throughout time. God always desires for us to leave our addictions to follow him into spiritual adulthood. He is always willing to empower and enable us to do so when we are teachable. I want to walk you through a well-known Bible story that outlines the process of addiction step-by-step.

D Douglas Weiss
Daily Prayer Can Help Your Overcome Your Addiction
 10/08/2025

Daily Prayer Can Help Your Overcome Your Addiction

Recovering from an addiction will be one of the hardest undertakings in an addict's life. In the midst of his addiction, the typical addict has clocked in hundreds, and sometimes thousands, of hours of repetitive, addictive conditioning. Many addicts rely heavily upon their acting out, as a primary coping mechanism before beginning the journey of recovery.

D Douglas Weiss
Date Your Spouse Regularly
 10/01/2025

Date Your Spouse Regularly

When you get married, intuitively you sign up to have fun. You know there will be some responsibility, but really you think there will also be some fun involved. After all, it took you all these years to find your ultimate playmate, your spouse!

D Douglas Weiss
God Isn’t The Reason Your Behaviors Are Out Of Control
 09/24/2025

God Isn’t The Reason Your Behaviors Are Out Of Control

This may or may not come as a surprise to you, but so many people blame God for their out of control behavior. How many of you have seen the T-shirts “born to shop” or “born for chocolate?” I know we all laugh, but unfortunately for some, we actually believe in our hearts that somehow God himself has some responsibility for the out of control areas of our life.

D Douglas Weiss
How Grief Can Affect You from Having an Incredible Marriage
 09/17/2025

How Grief Can Affect You from Having an Incredible Marriage

As a counselor, I have helped many people grieve many different events or realities in their lives. In grief counseling, the model for grief comes from Kübler Ross who studied people dying. She identified the grief stage as: shock, denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, and acceptance.

D Douglas Weiss
Identify your emotions with this helpful exercise
 09/10/2025

Identify your emotions with this helpful exercise

It is time to get emotionally stronger! This exercise is going to take you to another level of experiencing your emotions and expanding your ability to feel any emotion you choose. Remember, emotions are not cognitions or thoughts. Emotions are an entirely different way through which we experience, process, and influence our environment and relationships.

D Douglas Weiss
If you think you can control lust, you are deceived
 09/03/2025

If you think you can control lust, you are deceived

Revelation 2:20 introduces the “woman Jezebel.” The Lord is using a name from the Old Testament to describe this woman’s character. The original Jezebel was introduced in the book of 1 Kings as the wife of King Ahab. She had profound influence and used it for evil. She quickly became the most feared person in Israel. The Bible records several incidents that made her infamous for evil deeds ranging from false accusations to mass murder to assassination to forgery. The name Jezebel is casually used as a woman who cheats, is immoral or controlling. She derived her power from her sexuality; she got all dolled up for Jehu even though he killed her husband, King Ahab and used it to dominate, control, manipulate, and murder. From that one sin came all the other evils that plagued Israel during her reign. One result of her seduction was the massacre of the prophets of the Lord. She even struck fear into Elijah’s heart, one of the most powerful prophets ever to walk the earth. In…

D Douglas Weiss
A Man as good as his Word
 08/20/2025

A Man as good as his Word

Legend has it that there was a day not so long ago when men were more sexually pure. There was a day when a man gave his word on his wedding day to forsake all others, and he did exactly what he said he would do. He stayed married and faithful to the wife God gave to him to cherish. In that day, it was expected that men would keep their word to their wives and to others. A man was as good as his word, as the stories say.

D Douglas Weiss
Lust is a Liar
 08/13/2025

Lust is a Liar

One of the top five lies that lust likes to use is, “You can handle this by yourself.” Once you believe this lie, all hope of you getting better is gone.

D Douglas Weiss
10 Characteristics of Addiction
 08/06/2025

10 Characteristics of Addiction

For the most part, my career has been dedicated to helping addicts get sober and become amazing emotional, spiritual, and moral adults. I see the miracle of recovery from addiction every week.

D Douglas Weiss
Recovery is a Miracle
 07/30/2025

Recovery is a Miracle

I’m going to get a little theological for a moment to explain where your healing and freedom is and why. I want to share with you a revelation that helped me make sense of why I needed to confess to another person to be made free. This is why “just Jesus and I” wasn’t working, and why I couldn’t get free earlier in my life.

D Douglas Weiss
Sex and Authority
 07/23/2025

Sex and Authority

I have counseled with many men over the years who have doubled or more than doubled their income shortly after cleaning up the area of sexuality in their lives.

D Douglas Weiss
Break the Chain of Lust with This Simple Weapon
 07/16/2025

Break the Chain of Lust with This Simple Weapon

The phrase “not possible” is by far the most paralyzing lie lust has in its arsenal. The lie, “it’s not possible to be lust-free” is quite simple, but its impact can have decades of results.

D Douglas Weiss
Get a Grip on What is Controlling You
 07/09/2025

Get a Grip on What is Controlling You

Everyone has their own journey down the river of growth and change. Many of us have rapids to overcome--otherwise known as behaviors we just can’t seem to get control over. For some of you the behavior may be rage, for others it’s complacency, apathy or even addictions to work, food or exercise.

D Douglas Weiss
Having a Sexually Healthy Brain
 07/02/2025

Having a Sexually Healthy Brain

Maintaining sexual success while you build whatever kingdom you are trying to build is the cornerstone. A sexually healthy brain is critical.

D Douglas Weiss
Hormones and Your Mental Health
 06/25/2025

Hormones and Your Mental Health

Since founded, Heart to Heart Counseling Center has always maintained a holistic approach of treating clients.Studies show that 80 percent of women suffer from hormonal imbalances. Some women live with these imbalances without even realizing it; in fact, 70 percent are unaware of conditions that may have manifested due to hormonal irregularities. For men, studies indicate that hormone levels fall nearly one percent each year after they reach 30 years old. The human body produces hundreds of hormones, but the following four of them have a direct influence on brain health/mental health:

D Douglas Weiss
5 Tips to Affair Proof Your Marriage
06/18/2025

5 Tips to Affair Proof Your Marriage

Reported affairs for ministry and local church leaders appear at almost epidemic levels. We all see the newspapers and other news media that seem to salivate at another allegation of an affair in the body of Christ. I, for one, would like us to do as much as possible to affair-proof the marriages of our Christian leaders as well as the members of our churches. I want you to take these ideas and put them into action (James 1:22) to inoculate your marriage from an affair and truly enjoy your marriage to the fullest.

D Douglas Weiss
First Steps for a Sex Addict
 06/11/2025

First Steps for a Sex Addict

John is 40 years old and has been married for more than 12 years and has 2 children. He has been fortunate to have climbed a corporate ladder and is making more than $200K a year.

D Douglas Weiss
For Your Daughter's Sake
 05/28/2025

For Your Daughter's Sake

The biggest lie I have heard among Christian men about their sexual addiction is that “it’s not hurting anybody else.” Nothing could be further from the truth of God’s Word or His Heart.

D Douglas Weiss
Five Key Principles to Help You Avoid the Road to Trouble in Your Marriage
 05/21/2025

Five Key Principles to Help You Avoid the Road to Trouble in Your Marriage

Adultery and fornication are real, and according to Scripture have many consequences for you and your family. Your future, in so many ways, can be destroyed in this specific area. As a psychologist who hears about these tough situations every day, I have seen families, careers, ministries, and fortunes destroyed by men who traveled this road to trouble, never believing there would be a toll to pay for being on it.

D Douglas Weiss
First Step For A Sex Addict
 05/14/2025

First Step For A Sex Addict

John is 40 years old and has been married for more than 12 years and has 2 children. He has been fortunate to have climbed a corporate ladder and is making more than 200K a year.

D Douglas Weiss