Plan of Action

Leaving a Legacy

A large part of being a Christian man who is sexually successful is leaving a positive and healthy legacy for your sons. Your sons look to you for modeling in every area of their life. Rarely do we take a moment and think about what kind of sexual role model I am being for my son. You have the responsibility of having the sex talk with your sons. What do you say? When? So I thought we would take a journey through this part together. I want every man to feel confident in passing sexual health down to your family. This may get challenging for some, but stay persistent as it can change the life of your son, his son, and so on.

Three Common Myths About Forgiveness

The first myth about forgiveness is that the person who has sinned against you has to be present to forgive them. Some people don’t believe they can forgive someone unless they are right in front of them. I know personally most of the many people I have forgiven in my life were not present when I forgave them, and yet I was able to forgive them anyway.

Two Tips to Help You Stay Lust Free

1. Talk about it

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Common Lies of Lust Series #2 - You Don't Have Enough

Lust is tricky. Even though you don’t deserve the lifelong, increasingly beautiful helpmate in your life, lust will tell you that you still don’t have enough.

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We also need to recognize the importance of spontaneous kindness. Everyone likes a planned meal, but a surprise one is also appreciated.

Common Lies of Lust Series #1-More is Better

Lust is an absolute liar! It is conniving and out to destroy you, your family, and your legacy. The first lie I want to uncover is the concept of “more is better.” Lust tells you that if you have more: more money, more toys, more real or virtual body parts to look at, and more Internet pornography viewing time, that your life will be better.

Father God's Value of Women

If you had a father who was a manly man raise you, he was there to help you stay out of trouble. If you feared your father, you had respect for your father, understood his values, and knew the consequences. My son knows I love him and I tell him and demonstrate that to him daily. He also knows the value of respecting women, especially his mother. He knows disrespecting women would be immediately painful. He has a healthy respect and fear of dad.

Your Recovery Journey

Traveling through the recovery journey will require you to be humble and honest. You will need to "thaw out" your feelings and allow others through what I call "the glass wall" that has protected you. The journey will require you to "tell all", so that you can be free from the lie, "If you really knew me, you wouldn't love me." This will require you to be honest about the abuses, neglects and abandonments that you may have in your past. Bravely search through your family tree and see if there are any others who were afflicted with this same addiction--only during their generation it was yet to be labeled or identified as treatable. All of this will need to be accomplished so you can now experience friendship, serenity, intimacy--and the psychological and spiritual stability--that are part of the wonderful journey of recovery. This journey will uniquely be yours alone. It may prove to be intense and at the…

Clean Class

Clean Class Five
- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
Clean Class Four
Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
Clean Class Three
In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
Clean Class- Day Two
Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
Clean Class - Day One
In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

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