Plan of Action

A quick tip to help you through the inevitable conflict in your marriage

Though marriage can be wonderful, it can also have inevitable conflict. Conflict is a precursor to change and growth toward becoming one flesh. Conflict is a part of your marriage progressing toward becoming a fully functioning trinity.

Bad Ideas Can Keep You in Your Out of Control Lifestyle

One of the many scapegoats that can be utilized by someone who has tried to get control over what is controlling them. Our culture and every culture for that matter is full of ideas. Since humans generate these ideas there are really good ideas all the way to really bad ideas.

Am I Addicted to Sex?

Sex addiction is getting more and more media attention. I have been asked by Oprah, Dr. Phil, Montel, even (this is really dating me) Phil Donahue and so many others what sex addiction is and how can somebody know if they are a sex addict.

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Quick Tips

Intimacy Anorexia Characteristic #5- Withholding Sex

Withholding Sex - Not all intimacy anorexics withhold sex, but most intimacy anorexics withhold intimacy during sex when they do have it.

One Goal At A Time

Take all your effort and focus it on one area. Let’s suppose you are working on being more kindness. Take one of your goals towards kindness and stay focused, measuring your progress. Stay consistent in your goal towards kindness until you think you have achieved your goal. Then take on another goal. Measure that goal, stay in Blitzkrieg mode until you achieved each goal you set for yourself. Now you are going to see some real results. You can see and measure that you are actually much more kind than you were weeks or months ago.

Powerlessness

“We admitted we were powerless over the sex addict and that our lives had become unmanageable.”

The Internet

The internet is now an integral part of our society. We not only have internet access at home and work, but people are on cell phones almost everywhere. The internet represents the absolute best and worst of humanity. You can discover so much about addiction recovery and so much about addiction in a very bad way.

Intimacy Anorexia Characteristic #4 - Withholding Praise

Withholding Praise - Intimacy anorexics do not regularly give praise to their spouses privately.

Clean Class

Clean Class Five
- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
Clean Class Four
Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
Clean Class Three
In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
Clean Class- Day Two
Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
Clean Class - Day One
In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

Recovery for Everyone

Fear
Unmanageable
Powerless
Trust

New Recovery Resources

Cereset- We Help Your Brain Help You
Telephone Freedom and Intimacy Anorexia Groups
Am I A Sex Addict?
Counseling
Podcasts
Get Away
Douglas Weiss on 04/02/2021
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Serving Your Spouse
Douglas Weiss on 03/26/2021
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Cheerleader or Critic
Douglas Weiss on 03/19/2021
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APP Exclusive Bible Study

From Struggle to Victory: A Path to Freedom from Porn - Day Seven: Living in Victory
From Struggle to Victory: A Path to Freedom from Porn - Day Six: Finding Freedom through Forgiveness
From Struggle to Victory: A Path to Freedom from Porn - Day Five: Accountability
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