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Lust is an Opportunist

We have all heard various phrases about opposites such as, “that’s like oil and water.” Lust and love are polar opposites, much like oil and water. The origin of lust is our own self. Love, on the other hand, not only comes from God, it is God.

Coming Back from Infidelity

Counseling Christian leaders that have fallen to infidelity, pornography, prostitution, or other sexual inappropriateness has been a regular occurrence in my office for the last thirty years. When you do something or anything for almost thirty years, you learn quite bit about that subject. I want to share with you what I have learned about those who fall and get back into a growing ministry. I also want to share with you want I learned about those who fall and don’t go back to ministry or have such a small ministry if they do go back in their own strength.

The Story of Jezebel

In Revelation, Jesus introduces the “woman Jezebel.” The Lord is using a name from the Old Testament to describe this woman’s character. The original Jezebel was introduced in the book of 1 Kings as the wife of King Ahab. She had profound influence, and used it for evil. She quickly became the most feared person in Israel. The Bible records several incidents that made her infamous for evil deeds ranging from false accusations, to murder, to mass murder, to forgery. However, history has shown that the name Jezebel is now primarily synonymous with sexual immorality. And from that one association come all the other evils that plagued Israel during her reign. She derived her power from her sexuality and then used it to dominate, control, manipulate, and murder.

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Recovery Scriptures Part 7

God knows our thoughts. I think He not only knows them, but He ultimately evaluates them. If you think your thoughts are your domain and that God cannot see, hear, or judge them, you will be tempted to keep lust in your life as much as you want.

Recovery Scriptures Part 6

A good recovery exercise is to memorize and quote appropriate scriptures to strengthen your spirit when you snap the rubber band, but continue to use the rubber band to recondition your brain. On average, the person who is consistent with this reconditioning exercise of the brain finds about 80% of the fantasy lifestyle subsides within the first 30 days. If continued throughout the first 90 days, intruding thoughts normally become minimal and manageable with other exercises discussed later. This is a great exercise to truly “take your thoughts captive.” You deserve a clean thought life and a retrained brain, and with consistency and deliberate application, you can achieve it.

Recovery Scriptures Part 5

A lot of humans experience rest and peace through meditation, and are able to still the constant obsessive thinking that prevents them from hearing what God has to say: that they are significant, they are loved, and they deserve to be healthy. Meditate on God’s character, your personal relationship with him, some scripture or recovery material you have, and allow them to really sink in to your spirit. Be still and God will speak to you.

Recovery Scriptures Part 4

Let the truth of scripture become true to your heart. When you and Scripture believe the same way, you begin to manifest the mind of Christ. Scripture can be a very powerful and ever expanding tool to help you remain in your lifestyle of remaining lust-free.

Recovery Scriptures Part 3

Once you find a scripture that works for you, there are several principles you can use to apply it to your life. First, read it daily. Second, put it in your phone or use it as a screen saver. Third, memorize it. Finally, pray it to God.

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