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Agreement with Money in Marriage

Martin Luther is believed to have said that there are three conversions of a man: his heart, his mind, and his purse. I think he had a good understanding of the complexity the role money plays in a person’s life.

Do You Have What It Takes To Become Emotionally Fit?

One universal, dynamic malady affects many of us, regardless of where we live on this vast planet we call Earth. Though this malady inflicts untold damage upon our lives and the lives of those we love, it often goes undetected.

Common Myths About Forgiveness

The first myth about forgiveness is that the person who has sinned against you has to be present to forgive them. Some people don’t believe they can forgive someone unless they are right in front of them. I know personally most of the many people I have forgiven in my life were not present when I forgave them, and yet I was able to forgive them anyway.

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Core Ideas of Intimacy Anorexia Part One

The first thing that is obvious on the intimacy anorexia side of this continuum is a lack of intimacy in the marriage because of an addiction to withholding and emotional immaturity of the intimacy anorexic. Unlike the food anorexic who starves their own body, the intimacy anorexic’s addiction is much crueler, starving both the anorexic and its spouse intentionally, making both people suffer. It is oftentimes the spouse who suffers more, and they may even be made to look like the one with the problem, due to the intimacy anorexic’s behavior.

Desire for Fairness in Marriage

Marriage is intentionally designed to cause you pain and inconvenience in order to teach you to love your spouse unselfishly. And by so loving them, you become Christlike. This process is not fair, but it is necessary to become Christlike in many ways—to lay down our lives for our spouses. Remember; this is love.

Being a Servant in Marriage

One of the most famous teachings of Jesus about serving is taught in several scriptures: Matthew 20:26, 23:11-12, and; Mark 9:35, 10:43-44. In Matthew 20 (which we will explore more deeply in the pages ahead) we find a story of a mother of two disciples making a request of Jesus that he put her sons in a place of honor and esteem above the other disciples, specifically at His right and left in His kingdom. As the story proceeds, Jesus makes this famous statement in verses 26 and 27 (NIV): “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave.” It is interesting that He did not rebuke the idea of someone wanting to be great. He just shifted the idea of the process.

Encouraging Your Spouse

Your encouragement and praise of them as their spouse can help them believe in themselves. Your praise can also help your spouse take that one more step toward reaching the goal they have set out to reach. Your voice can strengthen or weaken the will of your spouse, depending on whether you serve with praise or poorly by being critical. As a servant toward your spouse, you would do well to strengthen and encourage your spouse to use his or her will to glorify God, the Creator.

Authority over the Nations

I want to share a verse with you, that turned my world upside down and fueled my desire to stay sexually pure over the past three decades. “To the one who is victorious and does my will to the end, I will give authority over the nations—“( Revelations 2: 26)

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- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
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Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
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In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
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Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
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In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

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