Plan of Action

Am I Addicted to Sex?

Sex addiction is getting more and more media attention. I have been asked by Oprah, Dr. Phil, Montel, even (this is really dating me) Phil Donahue and so many others what sex addiction is and how can somebody know if they are a sex addict.

Pornography is killing marriages

Pornography is a real killer of marriages today. Addiction to pornography is a huge problem in many families and the church as a whole. The impacts this evil has had on the church is huge. I have seen the total devastation that stems from pornography and inappropriate behaviors. I have written several books on sexual addiction and its impact on the spouse and children.

Ministering to the Sexually Addicted

Long gone are the days when pastors have not had to deal with sexual issues or the results of sexual issues in their congregations. In the past decade, it seems that adultery has increased, fornication has become almost normal, and pornography is common with men in the church.

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Quick Tips

Say Goodbye to Blaming

Blaming is important to the survival of the entity of intimacy anorexia. Blaming is the insider game. The anorexic really believes that circumstance, their spouse’s abuse (real or imaginary), family of origin issues or personality is to blame for the lack of intimacy, criticism or sexual disinterest.

A Kind Voice

I don’t know if you realize this or not, but next to God, you are the loudest and most consistent voice your spouse will hear throughout their life. So you decide what kind of voice your spouse hears. You can choose a kind voice that supports and encourages your spouse by putting wind under their wings or another not so positive voice. You can choose a silent voice or a gruff voice that discourages, degrades, and minimizes your spouse on a regular basis, but this is not the best choice.

The Power to Carry Out

Step Eleven: Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood God, praying only for knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out.

Recovery can be Measured

Luke 15:20: “So he got up and went to his father.”

Sexless Marriage: Intimacy Anorexia

Clean Class

Clean Class Five
- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
Clean Class Four
Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
Clean Class Three
In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
Clean Class- Day Two
Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
Clean Class - Day One
In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

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Am I A Sex Addict?
Counseling
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APP Exclusive Bible Study

From Struggle to Victory: A Path to Freedom from Porn - Day Seven: Living in Victory
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From Struggle to Victory: A Path to Freedom from Porn - Day Five: Accountability