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Acceptance and Learning Are Keys To A Happy Marriage

When Jesus washed His disciples’ feet, could you imagine Him saying: “Boys, line up! I have to splash water on your disgusting feet to make a point. I am doing this only because my Father wants me to do it. Hurry! Let’s get this done.” In the Bible, not once do you see Jesus serving with a bad attitude. I think this is because He embraced His calling to serve humanity. Out of His acceptance, He had a good attitude in serving us humans.

Nurturing Your Spouse Can Transform Your Marriage

For some people nurturing souls is a gift that is a part of their daily activities. They encourage the hearts of those they meet all day long. For others a kind word can take an act of congress for it to be extracted. Remember the old cliché “I told you I loved you the day I married you. Why do I need to tell you again?”. We laugh of such thoughts when we hear them but I can tell you as a therapist who treats couples, a man or woman who is not nurtured by their spouse regularly becomes a very different person than if they would have been nurtured.

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Maintaining sexual success while you build whatever kingdom you are trying to build is the cornerstone. A sexually healthy brain is critical.

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The Awesome Power of Spiritual Intimacy Series #12 - Connecting Emotionally

Connecting is fundamental to having and maintaining emotional intimacy. Many of us grew up unskilled emotionally. As a teenager in my home, I can remember that we seemed to express only three emotions. The first emotion we communicated was anger. The second emotion we were allowed to display was “really angry.” This was when doors were slammed or something was thrown. The last permitted emotion was what I call “other.” Other meant, “Leave me alone!” “I’m going for a walk, a drive or a drink.” This emotion found some other way to avoid or not process what we felt.

The Awesome Power of Spiritual Intimacy Series #11 - God The Father-in-Law Perspective

Most people hope and pray that our children will grow up and find future spouses who will be kind and affirming. Our feelings toward our child’s spouse are based upon whether he or she is willfully neglectful or consistently loving and kind toward our loved one.

The Awesome Power of Spiritual Intimacy Series #10 - Nurturing Is A Skill

In our modern-day vernacular, God might have said, “This is My boy. I love Him, and I am so happy with Him!” How interesting! Of everything He could have chosen to say to Jesus, He intentionally nurtured Him. Jesus wasn’t needy or psychologically impaired. He was a person, and God can’t help but nurture people.

The Awesome Power of Spiritual Intimacy Series #9 - Nurturing Each Other

Nurturing another individual’s soul is an effortless gift for some. They glide through their daily activities encouraging the hearts of people they meet all day long. But extracting a kind word from others requires an act of Congress.

The Awesome Power of Spiritual Intimacy Series #8 - Emotional Intimacy In Marriage

Emotional intimacy is a vital part of intimacy in marriage. It engages the soul, touching, connecting and finding a place of security and permanence in the other where you can rest. It’s an aspect of intimacy that is simply delicious. Once you add skills and consistency, you can savor meal after delicious meal of the many enjoyable aspects of your spouse’s soul.

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Clean Class Five
- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
Clean Class Four
Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
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In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
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Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
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In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

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