Plan of Action

Two Commandments to live your life after

#1 You shall have no other gods before me. I love this. God first declares I am God, Lord, and deliverer and His first command is to have no other gods. I love the logic of God. If He is God, there is no other. To have other gods of any kind would be to live in a fantasy or delusion of some type. God doesn’t live in fantasy, but in reality, and a reality that He alone is God.

Your destiny is tied to the destiny of others

There is a direct connection between your sexual integrity and your destiny in Christ. God has designed you and me to do amazing things for his kingdom, and our level of sexual purity will determine how useful we are. Sex and destiny are linked. This is why the devil works so hard to ensnare you in sexual sin. His goal is to neutralize you through immoral sexual behavior, thereby making you ineffective for the kingdom. And after thirty years of counseling men on this issue, I can tell you this is evidence that the devil is scared of you. Yes, afraid. Here’s why.

Don't let your bad day cause you to lust

Every man I have ever met has had one of those days when several things didn’t go the way he expected. I know you have had them, too. You didn’t get the job, were passed over for the promotion, got stuck in traffic, got yelled at by your wife, or were ignored by your dog. Bad days happen to all of us.

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Quick Tips

Warpath Series #12 - You Caused This. Now What?

You have to accept this: She’s not going back.

Warpath Series #11 - Betrayal Weaponizes Your Spouse

Here’s a refined and expanded version of your passage with clearer structure, deeper emotional weight, and a more powerful message:

Warpath Series #10 - Authority Is Earned

You’re not going to get it back right away. If you try to take it back by force, you’re going to meet resistance—because she doesn’t feel safe with you in control yet. And why would she? You’re the one who caused the wreck, and now the people she loves most are bleeding because of it. So for now, she’s going to drive. That doesn’t mean she wants to be above you forever, but it does mean she’s not ready to trust you leading yet.

Warpath Series #9 - How Can We Move Forward?

The marriage you once had is gone. That version of your relationship no longer exists, and it’s not coming back. You’re not trying to rewind time or recapture something that’s been shattered—you’re trying to build something new from the wreckage. If you keep asking, “Why can’t you just be that sweet, trusting person I married?” the answer will always be the same: “Because you betrayed me.”

Warpath Series #8- How It Feels To Live Free

As you validate, as you disclose, understand this—it’s a journey. There will be bumps, setbacks, and hard conversations. This isn’t a one-time event. It’s not a puke and go moment. True disclosure is an ongoing, authentic process, and that’s exactly what Christ calls us to.

Clean Class

Clean Class Five
- As a Christian man your sex organ has three owners:
Clean Class Four
Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of AASAT, discusses in this 4th Session of our Clean Class the two ways Christians approach the problem of being clean or not and the two sided problem that can occur if we are not clean.
Clean Class Three
In this 3rd session of our Clean Class, Dr. Doug Weiss, professional psychologist and president of the AASAT group discusses how your sexuality affects you and those around you, the importance of staying clean from sex addiction and how to do so.
Clean Class- Day Two
Dr. Weiss talks about what it means to be a protector and the role of men to protect women. Staying clean from sex addiction. Marriage was God's final creation. When you are married, you are God's son in law. How do you think God would grade you as his son in law? What we love we protect, and what we protect we love. If you are protecting a sexual secret, then you are loving the behavior or the pornography and hurting the people you love.
Clean Class - Day One
In this session I want you to prayerfully consider your boundaries around:

Recovery for Everyone

Fear
Unmanageable
Powerless
Trust

New Recovery Resources

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