Is Your Husband Hiding Something? Dr. Doug Weiss on Porn, Infidelity, and Betrayal

Posted on 05/19/2026
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Discovering the truth about your relationship can feel uncomfortable and scary, but avoiding it can cost you far more in the long run. In this episode, psychologist and sex addiction expert Dr. Doug Weiss joins Carla Shellis on the Really Feminine Podcast to address a hard reality: nearly 50% of men struggle with pornography, masturbation, or compulsive sexual behaviors, yet most never seek help simply because no one asks them.

If you’re a woman sensing something is “off” in your relationship, this conversation gives you permission and encouragement to pursue the truth. When there are signs of sex addiction, infidelity, emotional affairs, or secrecy, you deserve clarity, honesty, and safety. If a husband refuses to honor his commitment to protect the marriage, Dr. Weiss explains why the responsibility often shifts to the woman to ask direct questions and get informed.

Many betrayed women fear discovering the truth because of the pain it brings and how it will impact the relationship. But ignoring the possibility of porn use, hidden behaviors, or an affair allows the problem and the betrayal trauma to grow. In our sexually stimulated society, the hidden seed of lust can easily lead to infidelity in time.

If something is happening in your relationship, you do not have to navigate it alone. Call Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 to connect with a professional and compassionate therapist who will provide a safe space for you to be heard and offer the support and guidance needed to manage the emotional turmoil and achieve true healing.

Watch the full interview of Dr. Weiss on the Really Feminine Podcast here: https://youtu.be/vM8oL_Kvw00

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If you are struggling with betrayal trauma in your relationship, check out the Partner Betrayal Trauma book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

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