Why Porn Secretly Hurts Your Wife and Family More Than You Realize

Posted on 10/20/2025
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One of the biggest lies men believe is that pornography doesn’t hurt anyone. Psychologist and sex addiction expert Dr. Doug Weiss reveals how destructive that belief really is and how porn impacts marriages and families.

From decades of counseling, he's seen how wives silently suffer the consequences of their husbands’ sexual behaviors. From plummeting self-esteem to depression and even weight gain, the fallout of porn addiction cuts deeply into a woman’s identity, confidence, and well-being — whether or not she even knows about the problem. When a man turns to porn, his wife always pays a price.

But it doesn’t stop with wives. Research from Dr. Weiss’s book "Beyond the Bedroom" reveals how children of sex addicts carry scars into adulthood. The environment of secrecy and betrayal shapes their hearts and minds for years to come. They end up struggling with depression, low self-esteem, spiritual brokenness, and in many cases, becoming addicts themselves.

If you’ve believed porn is a private issue, this message will challenge that illusion and show what’s truly at stake. Don't let porn hurt the people you love most. Take the next step toward healing for both you and your family. Freedom is possible, and it starts with honesty.

If you or someone you know is struggling with sex/porn addiction, contact Heart to Heart Counseling Center at 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org to make an appointment with a certified therapist in this area. For accelerated recovery and healing, ask about our 3 and 5 Day Intensives which provide a lot of help in a short amount of time.

Watch Dr. Weiss' free Clean Class playlist here for more insight and principles on living free from sexual sin and addiction: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoQAJVqvxAfj89qlzMTRlmpBiE5DAh1YT

Check out the Clean book on sexual purity here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/clean-a-proven-plan-for-men-committed-to-sexual-integrity/

If you're a woman married to a sex/porn addict, check out the Partners: Healing From His Addiction book here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-healing-book/

Click here to download the "Now That I Now, What Should I Do" video download: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/now-that-i-know-what-should-i-do-video-download/

For information and statistics for children of sex addicts, check out the "Beyond the Bedroom" book here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/beyond-the-bedroom-book/