Whether you’re dealing with addiction, recovering from it, or just navigating married life, dating your spouse is crucial. I always tell my friends: dating is way cheaper than therapy — but if you don’t do one, you’ll probably end up doing the other.

Here’s the deal:

What is a date?
It’s 3-4 hours of fun — more than just grabbing a meal. It’s about going out, enjoying each other’s company, and making memories.

What is NOT a date?

• Shopping trips

• Running errands (no Home Depot or Walmart!)

• Family chores or grabbing fast food

• Talking about problems, recovery, or work stuff

A date is your chance to be lovers and friends — no stress, no serious talks — just fun, connection, and maybe holding hands.

I’ve been married over 32 years, and my wife and I still date weekly. It keeps our relationship alive and joyful.

Here’s a tip:
Set a consistent day to date—weekly or every other week. Rotate who plans the date. One week it’s his choice, the next it’s hers. When it’s not your turn, be the happy camper and enjoy!

After years of parenting and supporting each other, you deserve those few hours of pure enjoyment.

So, go out. Have fun. Keep dating.

Your marriage will thank you. ❤️

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