When you are tempted, sometimes your mind isn’t working right. So allow me to make this real simple. The next time you’re tempted to look at porn, masturbate, or act out in other sexual behaviors that do not include your wife, consider this, “Your pastor is a spiritual authority over you as a shepherd over a flock.” The next time you’re tempted to do anything sexually inappropriate ask his permission. Since your sex organ does NOT belong to you, you don’t get to make the decisions. If you choose to submit to authority when you are tempted, you can avoid a relapse.