We all need emotional connectedness- and I do mean NEED. Weary is the soul that has no one wit who, to share. We all need someone who will hear us. Being able to share yourself and to be heard are basic, legitimate God-given needs. Your need for emotional connectedness is no less legitimate than your need for food and water. When you genuinely accept this as truth, you will be able to take responsibility to make sure that your own needs and your spouse’s needs are met on a regular basis.