Most married couples have children eventually, and it is best when both parents are involved in the nurturing and growth of their children in the ways of the Lord. As a parent, you can do your part in being a godly father or godly mother, but you cannot control your spouse’s lack of responsibility or over-responsibility.

It is in your power, however, to be a team player. You can help with homework, drive the children to events, and do projects with them. But they need more than your involvement in their activities—they need to be able to sense your faithfulness to them, and preferably sense it from both parents.

Discipline and discipleship are best done by both parents consistently. When you include faithfulness in your parenting, it can make a world of difference in your family life during the years of your marriage when active parenting is involved.