This tip has helped me personally in breaking free from lust’s deception. I believe God gives us each our own inheritance. Nobody can have or take my inheritance, and it includes many different things. One part is that my inheritance alone is my precious wife, Lisa.
Your wife is your only sexual inheritance from God. The other women, images, and fantasies are not your God-given inheritance. When you face a situation to lust, you can simply state, “Not my inheritance,” in your mind.
The woman you are looking at is not yours in any way, shape, or form. You can’t make a covenant of love to her. In no way can you create a scenario that she’s your inheritance. Accepting your inheritance fully allows you to reject someone else’s inheritance.
That woman is not your inheritance; she is someone else’s. Whoever he is, he is trusted to protect and not consume his inheritance, much as you hope the men in your wife’s and daughter’s worlds will honor your inheritance. So, honor their inheritance by simply stating in your mind or even out loud, “Not my inheritance.”