Once you walk through the doors lust opens for you, you are introduced to a limitless supply of lust candy. You will see all kinds of flavors, colors, and combinations—things you never dreamed of. You will meet women that say and do all kinds of sexual things twenty-four hours a day, but ask for nothing in return.

Lying is a seduction that occurs in your soul. It seduces you into believing there is never enough. Sex must be different, exciting, loud, creative, or something you simply “need” more of to be even slightly happy. You are slowly buying the lie that no amount of lust will or can be enough for you.

The longer you stay in this lie, the bigger the hole in your life becomes, making you less able to enjoy spirit, soul, and body sex with your wife. You will be tempted to blame her (lust will encourage you), but your hole is now a problem in your marriage. Lust pulls you away from your marriage by creating a hole in your soul. Then it tempts you to return to lust in order to not feel the hole any longer.