A form of joy  that is set before you is the legacy you leave behind. The legacy of love you leave with the soul of your husband or wife. The legacy of love you set up for your children so that they create marriages that glorify God and are intimately satisfying. The joy of knowing that your generation is blessed because of you and the endurance you had relationally is a joy I personally want as I face the last of my days. I desire to leave generations blessed because I was willing to discipline myself to love  my wife, Lisa. I want a life without the regret of my failures in marriage and parenting, don’t you?