Being married, you are automatically engaged in this war of love. That doesn’t mean that your spouse is the enemy and that you are the side of justice. No, the war is not about right or wrong it’s about being Christlike and seeking the truth as an opportunity to grow.

You see, you must understand that powerful biblical principle: if you love, love never fails. (See 1 Corinthians 13:8) I like the fact that love never fails, even though I know that I can fail. This knowledge assures me that if I can love, I will learn to fail less and less and will someday win the war of love.