You can summarize sexual authority in these few words.  God is the first owner.  Your wife is the second owner and you are the third owner which gives peeing rights only.  This revelation can help you get and stay clean.  When you really accept your place in this corporation you will be free indeed.

My hope is that you will walk within the sexual authority that God has placed you under so you can reach the spiritual authority He would like to give you.  Remember there is so much more at stake here than sex, it is totally about the kingdom of God.