Sharing your secrets is essential to moving past your shame and into claiming your sexual inheritance. The first question that comes mind is, "Whom would I talk to?" Here is a list of suggestions:

• Your wife, a friend who loves you and that you can trust.
• A male friend you know who has had similar issues.
• A doctor to rule out any physiological problem.
• A pastor that you trust.
• A trained professional counselor/psychologist or sex therapist.