Unfortunately, neglect is all too common in Christian marriages seeking help. One clear form of this neglect is prayerlessness—when a couple fails to pray together consistently. Over the years, I’ve heard countless women express deep frustration over the lack of emotional and spiritual connection with their husbands.

When a spouse refuses to share their heart—and that refusal is compounded by decades without prayer or praise—it can lead to a silent anger, even an internal rage, within the other partner. This kind of neglect is a serious barrier to trust and intimacy, and it can cause significant damage over time, even if the couple stays together.

Establishing a daily time to pray with your spouse, share your feelings, and express gratitude is not just a nice idea—it’s essential for a marriage to truly thrive.