Withholding spiritually is a common trait among those struggling with intimacy anorexia. Even individuals who are active in their spiritual communities—those who are religious, volunteer regularly, or serve as spiritual leaders—can behave quite differently at home. Ask yourself: “When was the last time I initiated prayer, worship, or spiritual reading with my spouse without being prompted?” If it’s been a while since you’ve connected spiritually with your spouse in a private setting (not just in public), you may be withholding from them in this area. Take a few minutes today to make a plan to intentionally connect with your spouse on a spiritual level.