Guilt and shame are common feelings in early recovery, but as you move forward and begin to get first thirty and then ninety days of sobriety behind you, and actively pursue the steps, I find that most people begin to see and feel the guilt and shame break away. This is especially true after completing Step Five.

There is no shame in being a recovering sex addict just like there is no shame being a recovering "anything."  Of all the people who could have taken responsibility for their lives and behaviors, you have. I used to ask God, "Why me? Why am I an addict?" Now I ask Him, "Why did You choose me, out of the millions who suffer and die from this disease, to get freedom?" 

Recovering from sex addiction may be one of the largest contributions you will leave your future generations. I want to take a second and tell you that I am proud of your efforts in this journey. There is more and more hope for you in each step that you take.