Have you noticed subtle changes in your spouse’s behavior? More secrecy with their phone? Less emotional or sexual intimacy?
Irritability, defensiveness, or emotional distance that wasn’t there before? If you’ve asked yourself, “Is my spouse a sex addict?”, you are alone, and you are not crazy for feeling like something isn’t right.
For over 30 years, psychologist Dr. Doug Weiss has counseled thousands of couples who have been impacted by sex addiction, pornography, and infidelity. In this video, he reveals common behavioral signs of sex addiction in your relationship and where to get help. Many sex addicts hide or deny their activities, so it can be hard to tell from the outside whether they’re addicted or struggling. You’ll learn key indicators such as increased secrecy around devices and accounts, excessive time spent on certain activities, emotional and moral immaturity, and a lack of relational intimacy and connection in the marriage.
If you feel lonely, disconnected, or unloved in your relationship, your pain is real and your betrayal trauma is valid. At Heart to Heart Counseling Center, our therapists specialize in sex addiction recovery and partner betrayal trauma. Call 719-278-3708 to schedule an appointment and start receiving the healing and support you need today!
For accelerated recovery, book a 3-Day or 5-Day Intensive to get a lot of specialized help in a short amount of time.
Check out our betrayed partner healing materials here:
Partner Betrayal Trauma book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-ebook/
Partner Betrayal Trauma Video Download: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-video-download/
The Betrayed Man Video Download: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/the-betrayed-man-video-download-2/
We also have sex addiction recovery resources below
Final Freedom Book: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/sex-addiction-2/
101 Freedom Exercises workbook: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/101-freedom-exercises-for-sex-addiction/
Steps to Freedom workbook: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/steps-to-freedom-guide/
Shattering Sexualization Video Download: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/shattering-sexualization-how-to-stop-sexualizing-and-objectifying-others-video-download/
For female sex addiction, we have the She Has A Secret ebook and Secret Solutions workbook:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/she-has-a-secret-understanding-female-sexual-addiction-ebook/
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/secret-solutions-ebook/
Visit our Partner Betrayal Trauma website for more resources on this topic: https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/
For information and resources for sex addiction, check out https://www.sexaddict.com/
Learn more about Intimacy Anorexia, click here: https://intimacyanorexia.com/
To learn more about our counseling services, visit: https://www.drdougweiss.com/relationship-and-addiction-counseling/
For more information about our intensive program to get a lot of help in recovering from Sex Addiction, Partner Betrayal Trauma, or Intimacy Anorexia, visit: https://www.drdougweiss.com/intensives/
To join one of our many support groups, visit the following links:
Phone Groups: https://www.drdougweiss.com/groups/
Free Facebook Groups: https://www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/
Visit the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy to find a certified therapist and other helpful resources: https://aasat.org/
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0:00 Is My Spouse A Sex Addict
0:47 Increased Usage
1:12 Moody If No Access
1:42 Reduced Time With Other Activities
2:14 Moral and Emotional Immaturity
2:33 Faulty Logic
2:46 Bathroom Time, Locked Doors, and Passwords
3:12 Resistance to Showing Their Phone
3:21 Object vs Relational Sex
4:25 Past Sexual Abuse & Dysfunctional Families
4:44 Struggling with Emotions
5:08 Getting Help & Support
5:41 Partner Betrayal Trauma
5:56 Intimacy Anorexia
6:49 Other Resources
7:13 Do They Want To Heal?
Is My Spouse A Sex Addict? (Hidden Signs of Sex Addiction in Your Relationship)
Posted on 03/13/2026