Many emotional and physical affairs that happen in the workplace don’t start intentionally. They often start with casual conversations, shared stress, inside jokes, and emotional support that slowly replace the connection meant for your marriage. Over time, boundaries blur, secrecy grows, and a relationship that once felt “harmless” begins moving toward infidelity. Having counseled thousands of couples who’ve struggled with infidelity, psychologist Dr. Doug Weiss reveals the warning signs of when a work relationship heads towards the direction of a potential affair.
It’s important to know when to draw the line with your coworkers when it comes to your time with them, and what to discuss about your personal life and your marriage. If you’re not careful to set boundaries, shut things down early, and truly acknowledge and own what you’re doing, you can quickly move into the direction of an affair. If you’ve ever wondered whether a work relationship has gone too far, this video brings clarity and guidance.
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Posted on 03/02/2026