The Truth About His P*rn Habit...

Posted on 01/13/2026
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For counseling support, Heart to Heart Counseling Center offers 3 and 5 Day Intensives with counselors certified in this area. Call 719-278-3708 or email heart2heart@xc.org

Dr. Doug Weiss is a licensed psychologist who has helped thousands of couples dealing with sex and porn addiction for over 30 years. In this video, he discusses why a woman’s husband would be looking at porn.

You’ve asked yourself: “Why is my husband looking at pornography—especially when we’re intimate?” This video gives you the honest, research-backed answer.

Dr. Doug Weiss explains why a man's pornography use is not about your looks, your body, or your value as a partner. It's often rooted in early exposure and thousands of neurological connections formed long before your relationship began. From understanding how the brain attaches to fantasy to breaking down the psychological "escape" porn provides, Dr. Weiss brings over 30 years of clinical experience to help you make sense of what feels senseless.

If you’re feeling confused, rejected, or traumatized by your husband’s porn use, know this: you are not alone, and there is a path to healing. Visit partnerbetrayaltrauma.org to access free tools and community support, or check out Dr. Weiss’ books like The Final Freedom and The Six Types of Sex Addicts to understand the full picture. This isn’t your fault—and there is help.

If you’re living with someone with a sex addiction, you’ve gone through partner betrayal trauma. There is help though. We have intensives, phone sessions, and other counseling services and resources available based on your needs. Even if he doesn’t want to get better, our counselors can assist you with healing from the partner betrayal trauma and experience. Choose to move forward and take the next step today.

For more information on Partner Betrayal Trauma®, go to https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/

For the book, Partner Betrayal Trauma, visit:
https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

Your partner betrayal trauma is unique to you and your journey to heal will be unique as well. We have tests, three- and five-day intensives, counseling, phone groups, books, DVDs, and other resources to help you reclaim your life back. You can join our Facebook recovery groups as well:
https://partnerbetrayaltrauma.org/partner-betrayal-trauma-support-groups/

Doug Weiss, Ph.D., is a nationally known author, speaker and licensed psychologist. He is the executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and the author of several books including, Partner Betrayal Trauma ™.