Who do you want to protect—your wife or your secrets? A man can only protect one. Your sword only swings in one direction. You must decide: Will you guard your secrets, keeping them safe while wounding your wife? Or will you stand in the light, protecting your wife and slaying your secrets? You don’t get both. It’s an either-or decision.
Every woman knows this truth deep in her soul—what a man protects is what he loves, and what he loves is what he protects. So when she discovers that you are guarding secrets instead of her heart, she will believe one thing: You do not love her.
Maybe you’re scared. Maybe you’re ashamed. Maybe you feel trapped. But none of that changes how she will interpret your choices. I’ve listened to women like your wife for decades. The pain, the betrayal, the loneliness they feel when the man who vowed to cherish them chooses secrecy over transparency is profound. If you truly want to protect her, there’s only one path—stand by her side and let the truth be your sword.
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