Do you hold as important the things that your spouse considers important?
How are you at remembering?
1.Spouses birthday
2.Anniversaries
3.Dates
4.Special Occasions
5.Christmas
6.Important holidays to your spouse?
How are you at privately praising and nurturing your spouse (not dailies)?
How many years would you be guilty of consistent cherishing?
(Again, many intimacy anorexics are not good at this.)
However, we need to delineate between private and public praise and cherishing. Some will do things for their spouse in public to make themselves look good but at home there is little to no cherishing.
Remember, the intimacy anorexic is married to them self. Therefore, they will do anything to make them self look good.
I then set up to evaluate their grade of their relationship on all aspects of the promises. Check back for the final part of this series!