One of the earliest signs to find out which way a man's sword is facing is by looking at his boundaries. A man who is more likely to drop his sword has no boundaries or very weak ones. He reads worldly material and watches sexuality in all forms of innuendos and scenarios on television. He doesn’t mind occasional, partial or full, nudity on television or in magazines.
He hasn’t taken advantage of a porn blocker like Covenant Eyes for phone and computer accountability nor does he have an internet activity report sent to an accountability partner. He is alone in the web of pornography called the internet. He accidently or intentionally, can be hit by sexual material and not think twice about the incident. He has no boundaries concerned with talking to other women about their unhappy marriage, sex life, sexual humor, flirting or other inappropriate conversations. He hasn’t thought through what’s acceptable talk with women, whether they are single or married.
Unknowingly, those men, like Lot in the Old Testament, are vexing their souls. They just don’t know it. Lot didn’t technically do anything wrong, he just beheld and listened to the sexual world on a regular basis.