One of the ways I can determine if Intimacy Anorexics are in recovery is by following their creativity. Are they being creative when their schedule changes so that they can get the 3 dailies done? Are they keeping their sexual agreement and calling their group members, or is their creativity being used for excuse making and responsibility avoiding? You may have heard the phrase, “follow the money” but with Intimacy Anorexics it’s, “follow the creativity” and you’ll know the truth.